10 questions to ask your partner rn.
Can you guess what song’s playing in my head as I write this?
21 questions. Yep, it’s a song that sends me back to the 2000’s. It’s also a tool that we chatted about on our gram story to help you maintain a healthy relationship.
The tool is simple. You take turns at asking meaningful, purposeful questions of your partner until you reach 21. This is a good way to sense check where things are at. It gives you a chance to see how each other is feeling and what’s working really well.
We all agree that communication is key in a relationship. Lot’s of you babes needed some direction to get those conversations off to a good start. Start off small with three questions each. This helps if your partner has a very short attention span. (hello!) The rule is that you have to answer honestly. You ask a question. Then they ask a question.
Here are 10 questions to ask your partner rn - to get you started. Add your own in too!
What do you love most about me?
What is your favourite memory of our relationship?
What can I do more of in our relationship?
What could I do less of in our relationship?
When was the last time you felt proud of me?
When was the last time I made you feel really loved?
How can I support you better?
How would you describe me in three words?
How would you describe our relationship in three words?
When was the last time you felt supported by me?